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A Simple Way to Break the Stress Loop

This morning, I am speaking at a workshop about managing stress. As I was preparing, I kept coming back to one simple idea that I think is especially useful: sometimes stress is not something we can think our way out of.

We may know what is bothering us. We may even know what needs to happen next. But that does not always stop the body from staying tense or the mind from replaying the same concern over and over.

I wanted to share one of the simple tools I will be including in the workshop because it is something you can use almost anywhere, and it does not require special equipment or a long workout.

One thing I have noticed over the years of working with clients is that stress does not always show up as someone saying, “I feel stressed.”

Sometimes it shows up as feeling more scattered than usual.

Sometimes it looks like poor sleep, trouble concentrating, tense shoulders, low patience, or feeling like your mind keeps circling the same concern. For many people, especially when there are health issues, family responsibilities, or a lot of life changes happening at once, stress can become something the body carries all day.

The challenge is that stress can become a loop. Your mind keeps returning to the same worry. Your body stays tense. The more tense your body feels, the more your brain reads that tension as evidence that something is wrong.

That is where brain-body exercise can be helpful.

A simple movement that requires focus does more than keep the body active. It gives the brain something specific to organize, track, and respond to.

When you are counting backward while marching, switching hand patterns, naming categories while tossing a ball, or stepping to a rhythm, your attention has to move away from the worry loop and into the present task. You are not necessarily solving the problem that caused the stress, but you are briefly reducing the amount of mental space available for replaying it.

At the same time, movement can help lower physical tension, increase circulation, and give your body a chance to shift out of the “on edge” posture that often comes with stress. The goal is not to pretend difficult things are not happening. It is simply to give your brain and body a short break from staying locked into the same stress response.

Research suggests that physical activity can help people respond less negatively to everyday stressors, and that even a single bout of exercise may improve mood, attention, and rumination. Brain-and-body activities can add another helpful layer because they require concentration, coordination, and mental flexibility—not just movement.

Try This: The 60-Second Brain-Body Reset

Choose a safe position: seated in a sturdy chair or standing near a counter for support.

1. Slowly march in place or tap your feet one at a time.
2. While you move, count backward from 20.
3. Every time you reach a multiple of 3, say “reset” instead of the number.
4. Continue for one minute.
5. Finish by taking two slow breaths and notice whether your shoulders, jaw, or hands feel less tense.

This is a simple exercise, but it asks your brain to focus, remember a rule, coordinate movement, and adjust attention. That combination can help interrupt the pattern of sitting still while mentally replaying the same stressor.

At TogetherWON, we include brain-body exercises because daily life requires more than strength alone. We need to move while paying attention, make quick adjustments, stay steady when things are distracting, and shift our focus when life feels demanding.

Sometimes a few minutes of purposeful movement is enough to create a little space between the stressor and your response.

Have a Wonderful Weekend!

Kristen Nielsen

AND....A BIG ANNOUNCEMENT!!!!!!

Thanks to a generous donation from one of our clients to "Give Em Heaven", we have partnered with Peak Pickleball to offer our Body, Brain & Balance class for adults 55+ at a reduced rate!!!

This class is designed to help you improve strength, agility, balance, and confidence. You do not need to be a Peak Pickleball member—or a pickleball player—to participate.

Along with the weekly class, participants receive a guided workout plan on their phone to use between classes. The workouts require only simple, portable equipment, making them easy to complete at home or while traveling.

The monthly cost is just $35 for Peak Pickleball members and $50 for non-members—a program valued at $145 per month. We're so thankful for the donation that makes this possible!!!

Classes begin Monday, July 13, with options at 7:00 AM or 9:00 AM. We’ll meet once a week for class, and you’ll complete guided home workouts on your own throughout the rest of the week. Participants who consistently meet their weekly workout goals will be eligible for prizes and recognition along the way!

Join us for some fun!!!!!

Email me at [email protected] for more information, and check out the class website HERE.

Cucumber Lime Mint Spritzer

Ingredients

• 1 cucumber, thinly sliced
• 2 limes, sliced
• A handful of fresh mint leaves
• Ice
• Sparkling water
• Optional: 1–2 teaspoons honey or agave, if you prefer it slightly sweeter

Directions
Add the cucumber, lime slices, and mint to a large pitcher. Gently press the mint and a few cucumber slices with a wooden spoon to release their flavor. Fill the pitcher with ice, then add sparkling water. Let it sit for about 10 minutes before serving.

It is crisp, hydrating, and easy to keep in the refrigerator for a warm afternoon.

Email: [email protected]

Phone: 719-286-9450

Website: www.TogetherWon.com

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